အနမ္းဟာက်မ္းမာေရးအတြက္ဘယ္လို အက်ိဳးျပဳတယ္ ..စသျဖင့္ က်မ္းမာေရးေဆာင္းပါးေတြမွာ ဖတ္ဖူးၾကမွာပါ။အနမ္းတခ်က္က အသက္တစ္ေခ်ာင္းကို ကယ္လိုက္တဲ့အျဖစ္အပ်က္ကေတာ့ တရုတ္ျပည္မွာ တကယ္ပဲ ျဖစ္ခဲ့ပါတယ္။အျဖစ္အပ်က္ကေတာ့၂၀၁၁ ကျဖစ္ခဲ့တာပါ။
ဓားတစ္လက္ကိုင္ထားတဲ့ ၁၆ ႏွစ္သားေကာင္ေလးတစ္ေယာက္ဟာ မိသားစုကိစၥေၾကာင့္ တံတားေပၚကေန ခုန္ခ်ဖို ့ျပင္ေနတုန္းမွာ သူ ့ရည္းစားေကာင္မေလးက ရဲ ရဲ ့ခြင့္ျပဳခ်က္နဲ ့ သူ ့ကိုသြားေဖ်ာင္းျဖပါတယ္။ေကာင္မေလးနာမည္က လ်ဴ၀မ္ဇူးျဖစ္ျပီး ေကာင္ေလး ထက္အသက္ ၾကီးပါတယ္။ ၁၉ႏွစ္ရွိပါျပီ။
စကားနဲ ့ေဖ်ာင္းျဖေျပာဆိုရင္းနဲ ့ ေနာက္ဆံုးေကာင္မေလးက သူ ့ရည္းစားေလးကို နမ္းလိုက္တဲ့အခ်ိန္မွာ ကယ္ဆယ္ေရးေတြက ေကာင္ေလး ရဲ ့အသက္ကိုကယ္ ဆယ္ႏိုင္ခဲ့ၾကပါတယ္။
အနမ္းတခ်က္နဲ ့ အသက္တေခ်ာင္းကို ကယ္တင္လိုက္ႏိုင္တဲ့ဗီဒိီယိုေလးကိုေအာက္မွာ တင္ထားေပးပါတယ္။
the melting pot 4 U
(ဒါကယူက်ဳမွာေတြ ့တာေလးကိုေရးထားတာပါ။ဒီသတင္းအေသးစိတ္ china daily မွာေဖာ္ျပထားတာေလးေတြ ့လို ့ေအာက္မွာထပ္ျပီးေဖာ္ျပလိုက္ပါတယ္။)
၂၀၁၁ ဇြန္လ၁၁ရက္ နံနက္ခင္းတခုမွာ လ်ဳ၀မ္ဇူးဟာShenzhenျမိဳ ့လယ္တံတားေဘးမွာ လမ္းေလွ်ာက္သြားစဥ္
ဓားတစ္လက္ လက္ထဲ မွာ ကိုင္ျပီးခုန္ခ်ဖို ့လုပ္ေနတဲ့ေကာင္ေလးတစ္ေယာက္ကို လူအုပ္ၾကီးက၀ိုင္းၾကည့္ေနၾက တာေတြ ့လိုက္ရတယ္။
ခုန္ခ်ဖို ့ျပင္ေနတဲ့ေကာင္းေလးကိုၾကည့္ျပီး "သူပိုျပီးစိတ္လွဳပ္ရွားလာတယ္။ပတ္၀န္းက်င္ကလူေတြကသူ ့ကို၀ိုင္းၾကည့္ေနၾကတယ္။ကူညီေပးဖို ့ဘယ္သူမွ မၾကိဳးစားၾကဘူး။သူ ့ကိုက်မ ကယ္ရမယ္။ ဘာေၾကာင့္လည္းဆိုေတာ့ အဲဒီအေျခအေနကို က်မေကာင္းေကာင္းၾကီးသိတယ္"လို ့လ်ဴကေျပာတယ္။
လ်ဴကိုယ္တုိင္က သူ ့ကိုယ္သူ သတ္ေသဖို ့အၾကိမ္ၾကိမ္ၾကိဳးစားခဲ့ဖူးသူတစ္ေယာက္ျဖစ္တာမို ့အေျခအေန ကိုေကာင္းေကာင္းသိပါတယ္။
သူကရဲ ကို ဒီေကာင္ေလးဟာ သူ ့ရည္းစားျဖစ္ပါတယ္လို ့ေျပာျပီး ေကာင္ေလးနားကိုကပ္ဖို ့ၾကိဳးစားပါတယ္။ သူ ့ကိုေဖ်ာင္းျဖေျပာဆိုပါတယ္။
"တကယ္က သူ ့ကိုက်မတခါမွမျမင္ဖူးပါဘူး။ သူ ့ရည္းစားလို ့ေျပာလိုက္ရတာ အဲဒီအခ်ိန္မွာေပၚလာတဲ့စိတ္ကူး အတုိင္းပဲေျပာလို္က္တာပါ။
ေကာင္ေလးက အေမဆံုးသြားျပီ။ သူ ့မိေထြး က သူ ့အေပၚမေကာင္းဘူး။ေနာက္ေတာ့ သူ ့အေဖေငြေတြအကုန္ယူျပီး အိမ္က ထြက္သြားတယ္။ သူ ့အေဖနဲ ့သူက အခ်ိန္ပိုင္းအလုပ္လုပ္ျပီး ဘ၀ကို စလံုးေရစ ျပန္စေနရတဲ့အေျခအေန။
"သူက်မကိုေျပာျပတယ္။ သူ ့မွာအိမ္မရွိဘူး။သူ ့ကိုဘယ္သူမွလည္း ဂရုမစိုက္ၾကဘူး။ တစ္ေယာက္မွ သူ ့ကိုမယံုၾကည္ၾကဘူး တဲ့။ သူ ့ကိုဘာမွျပန္မေျပာပဲ က်မ ညာဖက္လက္ေကာက္၀တ္က ဒဏ္ရာကိုု သူူ ့ကိုျပလိုက္တယ္။
ငါ့လက္ေကာက္၀တ္ေသြးေၾကာကိုျဖတ္ျပီး ငါကိုယ့္ငါေသေၾကာင္းၾကံဖို ့လုပ္ခဲ့ဖူးတယ္။ ေနာက္ အေဆာက္အဦးျမင့္ျမင့္ေပၚကခုန္ခ်ျပီး ေသေၾကာင္းၾကံခဲ့ဖူးတယ္ လို ့သူ ့ကိုေျပာျပလိုက္တယ္။
လ်ဴကိုယ္တိုင္ဟာလည္း အျမဲတမ္း ရန္ျဖစ္ေနၾကတဲ့မိဘႏွစ္ပါးအလယ္မွာ ၾကီးျပင္းခဲ့ရျပီး နားမၾကားဆြံ ့အေနတဲ့ အမျဖစ္သူကို သူ ကေစာင့္ေရွာက္ရပါတယ္။ဘ၀ရဲ ့ဖိအားေတြက သူ ့ကို ဆယ္ေက်ာ္သက္အရြယ္မွာပဲ အထက္တန္းေက်ာင္းကထြက္ေစျပီး လုပ္ငန္းခြင္ကို ငယ္ငယ္ရြယ္ရြယ္နဲ ့၀င္ခဲ့ရပါတယ္။
က်မတို ့အိမ္မွာ ဘယ္သူမွ မေပ်ာ္ရႊင္ၾကဘူး။အေမအေဖက ေန ့တိုင္းေအာ္ဟစ္ရန္ျဖစ္။က်မတို ့ညီအမႏွစ္ေယာက္ကစိတ္ ထိခိုက္၀မ္းနည္း။ဒီေကာင္ေလးက က်မရဲ ့ ေမာင္ငယ္ေလးနဲ ့တူတယ္။
စကားေျပာၾကရင္းေကာင္ေလးကငိုရွိဳက္လာတဲ့အခါ လ်ဴ ဟာ သူတို ့ႏွစ္ေယာက္ၾကားနားလည္းမွဳတစ္ခုရျပီလို ့သိလိုက္တယ္။
ေကာင္ေလးက သူ ့မွာ ေမွ်ာ္လင့္ခ်က္မဲ့ေနျပီ။သူ ့ကိုကယ္ဖို ့ၾကိဳးစားျပီး အခ်ိန္မျဖဳန္းပါနဲ ့လို ့ေျပာတယ္။
က်မက ငါနင့္အသက္ကိုကယ္ေနတာမဟုတ္ဘူး။ ငါနင္ဘယ္ေလာက္အရူးထေနသလဲဆိုတာကိုပဲသိေစခ်င္တာ။ငါ ့ကို ၾကည့္။ ငါအရင္က နင့္ေနရာမွာ။ အခု ငါဒီမွာရွိတယ္။
လ်ဴ၀မ္ဇူးရဲ ့ေဖ်ာင္းျဖညိွႏိွဳင္းမွဳဟာ ရုပ္ရွင္ဇတ္သိမ္းခန္းေလးတစ္ခုလို လွလွပပေလးအဆံုးသတ္ခဲ့ပါတယ္။ လ်ဴက ေကာင္ေလးကိုဖက္လိုက္တယ္။ မေမွ်ာ္လင့္ပဲ ေကာင္ေလး ကိုနမ္းလိုက္တယ္။အဲဒီအေျခအေနမွာရဲ ေတြကေကာင္ေလးလက္ထဲကဓားကိုယူလိုက္ျပီး ကယ္ဆယ္လိုက္ႏို္င္တယ္။
"က်မသူ ့ကိုနမ္းေတာ့ သူ ့ဓားကိုင္ထားတဲ့လက္နဲ ့က်မခါးကိုဖက္ပါတယ္။က်မတို ့ႏွစ္ေယာက္လံုး သည္းသည္းထန္ထန္ငိုခဲ့ၾကတယ္။ က်မသူ ့ကိုကယ္လိုက္ႏို္င္တာသိရလို ့က်မေပ်ာ္ပါတယ္။ "
ေကာင္ေလးကိုကယ္ျပီးတဲ့ေနာက္လ်ဴထြက္သြားပါတယ္။ေကာင္ေလးက လ်ဴမရွိပဲ ဘာမွမေျပာဘူးလို ့ေျပာတဲ့အတြက္ ရဲေတြကလ်ဴကိုေခၚေပးရပါတယ္။
"က်မတို ့ဖုန္းနံပါတ္ျခင္းလဲလွယ္ျပီး ဖုန္းထဲကေနစကားေျပာျဖစ္ပါတယ္။ က်မက သူ ့ကိုုဖုန္းဆက္ျပီး အားေပးမယ္။ပိုေကာင္းမြန္တဲ့ဘ၀ကိုဦးတည္ႏို္င္ေအာင္အားေပးမယ္လို ့သူ ့ကိုကတိေပးခဲ့တယ္။"
ဒီအျဖစ္အပ်က္ျပီးတဲ့ေနာက္ အင္တာဗ်ဴးေတြ၊ဖုန္းေတြမၾကာခဏအဆက္ခံရတဲ့အတြက္ သူ ့အလုပ္မွာ စိတ္ကသိကေအာင့္ နည္း နည္းျဖစ္ရပါတယ္။
ဒီအျဖစ္အပ်က္က က်မရဲ ့အလုပ္နဲ ့က်မဘ၀ကို အေႏွာင့္အယွက္မျဖစ္ဖုိ ့ေမွ်ာ္ လင့္ပါတယ္ရွင္။ ေကာင္ေလး ကိုကယ္ဖို ့သြားစဥ္တုန္းကသိပ္မစဥ္းစားပဲ သြားခဲ့သလို ့ဒီအျဖစ္အပ်က္ကိုလည္း သိပ္မစဥ္းစားခ်င္ပါဘူး တဲ့။ က်မအတြက္အေရးအၾကီးဆံုးကေတာ့ ေန ့တိုင္းေပ်ာ္ေပ်ာ္ရႊင္ရႊင္ေနရဖို ့ပါ ပဲ တဲ့။
the melting pot 4
(ကူးယူေဖာ္ျပပါက the melting pot 4 u မွကူးယူေၾကာင္းခရက္ဒစ္ေပးရန္ေမတၱာရပ္ခံပါသည္။)
A kiss not just a kiss
By Shi Yingying (China Daily)
Updated: 2011-06-24 07:51
 Liu Wenxiu, 19, a hotel waitress in Shenzhen, has become an online celebrity for her heroic and romantic act of saving a suicidal 16-year-old with a kiss. Provided to China Daily |
SHENZHEN, Guangdong - Like a real life version of Snow White, Liu Wenxiu's kiss literally saved the life of a 16-year-old boy.
Liu just passing by a pedestrian bridge in downtown Shenzhen on June 11 when she spotted hundreds of onlookers watching a young man with a knife in his hand, threatening to jump.
"I saw him get more and more excited - everybody around was just looking, nobody was trying to step up and help," said Liu, a 19-year-old hotel waitress.
"He had to be saved - because I've been there before and I knew exactly how it was," continued Liu, who had attempted suicide several times.
The boy was outside the guardrail and only one step from falling. Local police had tried without success to persuade him to give up.
Liu managed to get close to the boy by telling the police that she was his girlfriend and also the reason for his attempt to commit suicide.
"The fact is I'd never seen him before, but that's the only idea I could come up with at the time," she recalled.
According to local television, the boy's mother had passed away, his stepmother didn't treat him well and she left with all his father's money. The father and son had to take part-time jobs and start their lives over again.
Liu started to sob when she heard the story.
"He told me he didn't have a home anymore, nobody cared about him and no one trusted him. I said nothing but showed him the scars on my right wrist. I used to be suicidal - I've attempted cutting my artery, jumping from a high building and others," said Liu during a local TV interview after her successful rescue.
Born in Anhui province, Liu grew up amid quarrelling parents and the responsibility to take care of her elder sister who is a deaf-mute.
Life pressure forced her to quit high school and start working when she was only a teenager.
"Nobody in my family was happy - both of my parents spent days brawling, which left my sister and I gloomy. That boy, he was like a younger me," Liu said.
With the boy crying even harder, Liu knew he had a sense of being understood.
"He said he's hopeless, 'so don't waste your time to save me'. But I told him, 'I'm not saving your life, I just want you to realize how silly you are being. Look at me, I've been there and I'm now here,'" she said.
The negotiation on the bridge ended like a romantic comedy when Liu hugged the boy and kissed him unexpectedly. Police took advantage of the situation to take away the boy's knife and pull him inside the handrail of the bridge.
"When I kissed him and when he put his hand (with the knife) on my waist, both of us were crying so hard," she said. "But I was happy as I knew I had saved him."
Liu said she didn't think too much before she offered her kiss, only that she knew it would comfort him.
"I simply thought he has to be stabilized, so he won't do anything stupid. The police were near us and I didn't worry about being pulled down by the boy," she said.
Liu left after the rescue. Local police called her soon after because the boy refused to reveal his story without her presence.
"I didn't go but we talked over the phone and exchanged our phone numbers. I promised him that I would call him later and I will, to encourage him to lead a better life," Liu said.
Liu feels very uneasy after the accident as her mobile phone has been bombarded with calls for interviews, according to Lai Shouyan, Liu's boss at the Hepans Taipan SPA Boutique Hotel.
"Personally I hope this doesn't affect my work and normal life. I didn't want to think much of the accident just like I didn't think much when I went forward to save the boy," Liu said. "For me the most important thing is that we live and enjoy each day."
China Daily
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